At the Guardian she tagged six books that can help you to love your enemies, including:
Anger: Buddhist Wisdom for Cooling the Flames, by Buddhist monk Thich Nhat Hanh, helped me see my own “enemies” for exactly what they were: ordinary, inept and helpless beings who, like me, could be assuaged with understanding and forgiveness.Read about the other entries on the list.
--Marshal Zeringue